All Hallows Eve with Christ: For Our Grandchildren, Part 2

All Hallows Eve, by Craig Gallaway, 2021 (scratchboard)
© 2021 by Gallaway Art

One of the first things that Jesus did after he rose from the dead was to fix a breakfast of fish for his disciples by the sea of Galilea. His camp fire effort is a sign of the kind of holy life that we believe we too shall have when we rise on the Day of New Creation. But who are the other two people in the picture? They could be some of the people whose stories we tell in this album. They could also be us, Grandpa and Grandma Gallaway, once we leave this present life, and make our journey to be with Christ in paradise until the new Day comes. You see, we too have loved to share music, and to make delicious food for you and others. What is more, we believe that we shall enjoy these gifts again, just like Jesus did by the sea, when we gather around the fire with him. That’s why our picture also has mountains and cold and snow. Life with Jesus was never meant to be a life with no weather or work, no challenges or faith, no courage or hope. The Hallows know this better than anyone.

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Great Granddad Luder with his father, about 1925

Carl Raymond Luder, 1921-2007

Your Great Grandfather on Your Father’s Side

Great-Grandpa Luder grew up in Washington, Indiana, a small town where his father was a photographer. That’s grandpa Luder, when he was a boy, playing with his father in the studio. But Grandpa Luder’s life wasn’t always easy and fun. Like many in his generation he served in World War II and in Korea. He met your great-grandmother, Marylouise, in Hawaii at the time of Pearl Harbor. 

 

Carl and Louise with Ben and Chris, 1988

Later in life, Grandpa Luder enjoyed planting a vegetable garden each summer. He was a gentle man who always told the truth. He and Marylouise sang a prayer to start the day: 

Good morning, Lord–It’s great to see the sun again! 

Good morning, Lord—It’s great to talk to You again. 

This day’s a flower and as it blooms, I’ll trust its care to You. 

That’s why I say, as it begins, “Good morning, Lord!”

  “This is the day that the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”

Psalm 118:24

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Mama Gallaway with baby Ira, about 1925

Julia Estelle Taylor Gallaway, 1894-1968

Your 2nd Great Grandmother, Your Father’s Side

“Mama” Gallaway, as she was known not only to her family but to everyone in the countryside around Glen Cove, Texas, was a wonderful woman. She came of age in the 1920s, and raised her family during the hard Depression years. That’s her, holding baby Ira, in about 1924-25 at the old Burton Place.  Mama grew big gardens, and put up hundreds of jars of fruit and vegetables so her five sons could eat during the winter. 

 

Mama with Great Granddad Ira on her front porch about 1956

Mama was kind. She always reached out to you and offered something. I (Grandpa Gallaway) used to come begging a pinch of dough when she was making bread. “Why Craig, that’ll give you a belly-ache.” “But Mama, I just want a little piece.” “Well, alright then; but not any more!” This happened pretty much daily. Despite the many hardships of her life, Mama was a grateful and a happy person. How good it will be to see her again.

Ephesians 4:32 – “And be ye kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

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All Hallows Eve with Christ: For Our Grandchildren

All Hallows Eve, by Craig Gallaway

Dear Colin and Rose,

All Hallows Eve, or “Halloween,” is a special day, once a year on October 31, when Christians remember and celebrate those who have gone before us in the life of faith; those who have already died and are now with our Lord in the place that Jesus called “paradise” (Luke 23:43). These people include our friends and family members who have died in the faith, and many others we have never known, all of whom believed in Christ, and all of whom are now with Christ in paradise waiting for the great and final day of the Lord’s judgement and the resurrection. They are “resting,” or “asleep” as the Scriptures say, until the Day of the Lord (Revelation 6:9-11).

In this photo album, we are gathering pictures and short stories about the members of our family who have already made this journey, men and women, maybe sometimes boys and girls, who lived with faith in Christ and His Spirit, who grew in that faith for the time allotted to them, and who then died and now wait (even as we wait) for the renewal of life-in-the-body that will come with the resurrection from the dead  (1 Cor. 15:12-26).

The people in this album were not perfect. They had their own flaws and failures. They struggled with temptations and difficulties. But because they believed in Christ and His Spirit, they did not face those troubles alone. They faced them with His help and guidance. And so, they became what the Scriptures call “saints,” that is, people who, despite their flaws, are being made holy by Christ and His Spirit. The stories we tell about them will include some of their struggles and how God helped them.

Our goal, each Halloween, will be to add to this album so that you, our grandchildren, can remember these examples of faith and holiness in your own family as you face your own struggles and temptations. This is the “communion of the saints,” saints above with saints below, and it is what “all hallows eve” is all about. 

Of course, there are other customs at Halloween, like “trick or treat” and dressing up in costumes, that are fun. And there are some old traditions in other religions, like Samhain, that sometimes are not like Christ at all. But we want you to know how to celebrate Halloween in Christ.

2 Corinthians 10:5 – “Take every thought captive for Christ.” 

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Ira Leon Gallaway at 6 years old

Ira Leon Gallaway,  1924 – 2015

Your Great Grandfather on your father’s side

Granddad Ira grew up and went to school at Glen Cove, Texas. When he was still little, there was a bully at school that used to pick on him. Every day he came home crying and complaining about this bully; until one day his older brother, Presley, said, “If you come home one more day complaining about that bully, I’m gonna whip you too.” Press knew that Granddad needed to learn to stand up for himself. And Granddad was more afraid of Press than of the bully. So, the next day, Granddad beat up the bully; and that put a stop to that.

Ira Leon Gallaway at 79 years old

Later in life, Granddad became a very brave and courageous man. He would often stand up for what was right when other people were afraid. Maybe that’s why his parents gave him the middle name, Leon, which means “lion.”

Philippians 4:13 – “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

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Great Grandma Luder with Ben and Chris, 1990

Marylouise Wellensgard Luder, 1913-2004

Your Great Grandmother on Your Father’s Side

Great-Grandma Luder lived most of her life in Santa Barbara, California. Your Grandma Gallaway is her daughter. When your dad and his brothers Ben and Zach were little boys, they would go to Santa Barbara to visit Grandma Luder. She loved having her grandchildren come to visit. She would fix their favorite foods. She made delicious pies.

Grandma Luder with Spenser, 2000

Great-Grandma Luder also loved animals—very much! The Luder household always had several furry occupants. But the thing people remember most about your Great-Grandma Luder is that she was a very, very good friend. She was a true friend to people who needed a friend—the sick, the sad, and the lonely. She loved Jesus, and she wanted very much to be just like Him.

John 15:13 – “There is no greater love than this, to lay down your life for your friends.”

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Well, Colin and Rose, we may send one or two more hallows stories to you this year, before October 31, if we can get to it; but we will certainly send more next year, providing neither of us have made the journey to paradise ourselves. In any event, we want you to know that we love you and, with all the saints, we will always rejoice with you in the goodness of our Creator and Redeemer.

On this road of New Creation,

Grandpa and Grandma Gallaway